A Story of Triumph
A Pebble That Floats
By Imelda Lahoz Argel — corporate lawyer, migrant advocate, founder of Safe Haven Institute
One woman’s true story of surviving coercive control — and rising. Recognise the silent signs. Reclaim your strength.
SYNOPSIS
One woman's true story of surviving coercive control — and rising. Recognise the silent signs. Reclaim your strength.
Imelda Argel, one of Manila’s top corporate lawyers, marries Pablo after a whirlwind romance. On their wedding night the charm evaporates — replaced by gaslighting, withheld support, and a secret mistress. She is trapped in a country with no divorce law.
Enduring emotional abuse and societal embarrassment, Imelda reaches her breaking point. Armed with legal expertise and nothing left to lose, she musters the courage to fight for her freedom — representing herself against Pablo’s family in a legal system built to keep her silent.
Did she win? And what did it cost her to be free?
READER'S FEEDBACK
What readers are saying?
Roger Delmonte ★★★★★
A very inspiring life-story that is really worth reading and reflecting. It teaches us about holding on to faith, hope, love, courage, and perseverance in spite of life’s disappointments, failures, despair, and seeming hopelessness. Thank you Tita Imelda for sharing your life with us!
Malou Ladios ★★★★★
Marie ★★★★★
The author by her story provided an honest account of that aspect of Filipino patriarchal society of that era, where women were regarded as second class citizens. She is inspiring in the way she rose above the challenges of being a migrant and more remarkably, how she has helped other migrants by successfully lobbying for overseas qualifications to be recognized on par with Australian degrees. A good read for all – men, women, migrants.
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